Sometimes I’ve wondered what it would be like to be present
when Jesus restored the eyesight of the blind man in Bethsaida (Mark 8:22-25).
The shock and the joy he must’ve felt as he saw what he’d been hearing around
him all his life was probably overwhelming to say the least. I think Friday I got a
tiny picture of what the reaction may have been like for that blind man when I
saw our son Matthew react to seeing clearly for the first time.
We knew Matthew had horrible vision because he squinted ALL
the time. He needed to be 12 inches from
the television screen to play the Wii.
We didn’t know how bad his sight was until we took him to the eye doctor
this past Friday. The doctor said he
hated to throw out the word “blind,” but Matthew could not see ANYTHING outside
of 6 inches from his face.
My dear Ukrainian friend, Anya, volunteered to come to his
appointment and translate for Matthew and the doctor. What an absolute blessing Anya has been for
our family. She has helped translate for
all 3 of our boys now.
Matthew was quite adamant about NOT having to wear glasses
mainly for appearance purposes. He
wanted contact lenses. Skeptically the
doctor agreed to allow Matthew to wear contact lenses because of how bad his
vision is and also how clean and responsible Matthew is for his age. We still had to purchase glasses for Matthew
to wear in the evenings per doctor’s orders.
The doctor reclined Matthew’s examination chair all the way
back and put one contact in Matthew’s right eye first. Matthew said in Ukrainian, “I already see 100
times better!” When the doctor put the
left contact in his eye, Matthew sat straight up, wide-eyed and looked all
around the darkened room exclaiming, “WOW!!!” He looked around again and gasped
in happy awe, “WOW!!!” I’m pretty sure
Anya and I both had tears in our eyes!
His reaction to seeing for the first time was priceless! “WOW!” he kept saying over and over as he
looked around.
After we left the doctor’s office the first thing Matthew
said was, “I like Anya. She is very good
and very beautiful.” (I can understand
simple Ukrainian). The second thing he
said was, “Thank you for my lenses, Mama.
Thank you! Wow!! I like these
lenses!” The whole 30-minute ride home
he was enthusiastically pointing out motorcycles, Hummers, Mustangs, police
cars and all sorts of things. “Mama!
Look! Hummer!” “Mama! Look! Helicopter!”
Tim barely walked through the doors at 6pm before Matthew
stampeded him, “I can see, Papa! I have lenses!” Anyone he saw he told them he was wearing
contact lenses. He was so excited.
In the Bible healing the blind was a miracle only Jesus
performed. Likewise, spiritual blindness
is only cured through the blood of Jesus Christ. I am praying for Matthew and all our family
members who may have spiritual blindness. I pray
their eyes would be opened and that they will see the love of Christ and
believe in faith!
I saw a few parallels between physical blindness and
spiritual blindness that I wanted to share.
The first parallel is it takes faith to see physically. The blind man at Bethsaida had to trust Jesus who put spit on his eyes and made him see. Matthew had to trust me as his mom that I was
leading him to a doctor who could help him.
He had to trust Anya to translate and the doctor who was touching his eye and putting
contact lenses into his eyes. Spiritual
blindness requires faith in Christ, the Great Physician. Second, Matthew was FILLED with joy and
thankfulness for his new sight. Those of
us who have spiritual sight should live a life characterized by joy and
thankfulness. We should want to tell everyone we know about our sight and the Great Physician who gave it to us. Third, Matthew has increased
devotion to me as his mom. Since Friday
he has been more loving, respectful and affectionate. Every day we should desire to show our love
and devotion for Christ more. It’s a
testimony of the change in our lives from blindness to sight! Finally, with eyesight Matthew has increased
discernment. No longer will he walk in
darkness. He won’t walk in front of moving
cars, or miss someone sitting quietly in a room. He will be able to see out the windows and
doors and determine if it is a friend or a stranger on the other side of the
door. He can see his school work from
further away which helps him learn easier.
Similarly as Christians we should have increased discernment. We should see the world from a biblical world
view. As we grow and study God’s Word we
should be able to discern between behavior that is dangerous and behavior that
is edifying.
I am so thankful for the calling in our lives to adopt
Matthew. He is such a joy and so full of
enthusiastic life. I’m thankful for all
that I have learned from him already. I
am thankful for a husband who loves the Lord and is tender to God’s
leading. I’m thankful for the amazing
father that Tim is to our kids and godly male example he is to our boys.
I’m thankful for Anya, for her friendship, and for her using her
God-given abilities to translate to help our boys. Most of all I am thankful for my salvation in
Christ and my spiritual sight! I’m
thankful I don’t have to aimlessly stumble around this world without the Light in
my life.
What a priceless memory forever etched in my mind of Matthew’s
reaction when he saw clearly for the first time! WOW!
Getting ready to see for the first time |
Learning how to put in and take out contact lenses |
Outside enjoying his new sight! |