Today we first met his
director. We were a little nervous about the visit because we were told she was very stern. I felt she was warm and loving from the moment we arrived. The
director told us some things about E’s history.
He has a living father, but his father has never visited him since he
arrived at the orphanage. His
grandmother is too old and never visits him either. The sentences “He has no one” and “His dad
does not want him” kind of jabbed me in the heart. Tim piped up, “Well this dad wants him a lot!”
The director went on and on about what a wonderful boy he is. She
said he loves sports, he is very smart, he works hard, he loves to help, he is
in charge sometimes of cleaning (leadership) teams, has good reputation with
teachers, keeps his bedroom area spotless, likes to keep himself neat, hair
combed nicely and clean clothing (we also witnessed that he
wipes his mouth as he eats and washes his hands before he eats). She said
that she has been there 34 years and she can predict the ones with wonderful
potential with 99% accuracy and she thinks he has GREAT
potential. She very much hopes he will say yes to our family because she
likes our family very much. She said she wishes every single one of the
children in her orphanage could have a family.
She had a little table set up
in her office in the morning when we first arrived where we
drank tea and had cookies and chocolate. Tim doesn't like tea but he
drank it anyway and smiled the whole time. haha
E gave us a tour of his
orphanage. He carries on a wonderful conversation. There is a statue
outside his bedroom window and Tim asked him if he knew what it was. He
ended up giving us a brief history lesson about whoever that man was on
the statue that protected the territory. He's VERY bright, polite and a
born leader. I can't believe that I am absolutely smitten by
him. When he hugs me, he holds me tightly. It is so sweet.
His hug for Tim is swift and manly, but me, he hugs tenderly and holds the hug
for a few moments...And his blue eyes and long eye lashes...he is going to
attract too many girls! ;)
(Below picture...E standing beside his bed and window. He keeps his area very neat! The next photo is Tim giving E a motorcycle Pez candy dispenser.)
We stayed and watched a show that
the different classes videotaped with different skits. E was in the
5th grade class's show. He acted out something and clearly has a
sense of humor.
Then the assistant director had
us attend a private lunch before the other children came in. We had
some delicious borsht and potatoes with chicken and gravy (?) on top. It is nice to know that he has been fed well for the 2 years he's been at the orphanage. There
were fresh tomatoes from their "kitchen garden" (E told us
he helped plant and pick them) and bread along with more
tea. E ate every last bite, wiped his mouth, carried on conversation
politely, then took our dishes when we were finished and wiped the
table off and then used a rag to clean it. He looked like a little waiter
at a very fancy restaurant. (The below picture he is politely offering that we sit before he does. You can also see their entire dining room and how each table has a vase and flowers. It was SO clean.)
While we had our tour of the
orphanage E eagerly ran ahead and opened all the doors for the ladies and held
them as we walked through.
Anyway, it was a wonderful
visit. Since tomorrow is Sunday we are not going to the orphanage.
The director asked us not to come because E is in charge of some cleaning team and
she needs his help. I guess on Monday some inspector is coming to check for
cleanliness. I'm not sure what they need to clean because the place is
immaculate.
As we left, he hugged us, and then
ran upstairs as fast as he could. He knocked on the window above us and
waved and smiled. He watched us leave. (You can see him peaking out the arched window above the door in this below picture).
On the way home we stopped at a
shop and finally found an umbrella. Our driver also drove us to a
huge mall with a toy store so we could buy him a few toys. We really like
our driver Vitaliy. He's definitely one of our favorite drivers of all of
our trips to Ukraine.
We are going to miss visiting E, but glad for a day off tomorrow
because it is tiresome getting up so early and going out there. This is
Ukraine and somehow 50 kilometers (31 miles) takes 3 hours to drive ONE
WAY LOL (I'm not really exaggerating either).
Looks and sounds like a nice orphanage! So, so happy for you guys!!!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds as if you all had a wonderful visit. That was good that is was so clean. He sounds like a very nice young gentleman. May the Lord continue to bless your family.
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